October 7, 2008

Are they golddiggers?

One of the problems and fears when someone starts off dating again is the worry that the person you are dating is gold digger, someone who is after your money and assets. This worry especially concerns recently widowed, successful or divorced people who have a good lifestyle and want to share it with someone.

Obviously all people are different, but there always comes the time when it must cross the mind of a new couple, so here are tips, which could help you:

Understand what a gold digger is, and is not
Gold diggers drop hints that they’re having trouble paying their bills
When they discuss their financial woes, suggest ways in which the suspected gold digger can
Look for a sense of entitlement
Ask them meaningful questions
See what questions they ask you
Search for signs of generosity and gratitude towards you
Indulge in a pipe dream
Watch yourself

Source [Wiki How]